Women

Discovering who you are meant to be

The Window of God's Grace

Finding your true reflection

Do you live with anger just beneath the surface? Do you know you need to forgive someone, but you’re struggling to do so? Are you trying to find purpose in everyday living? Wondering why you’re always needing more love? More recognition? More fulfillment?

Could be you’ve lost sight of the One with the answers. Could be you’ve become lost in yourself. 

I did.

At the time, I knew something wasn’t right. I self-diagnosed my condition as caused by those around me. If only he would…. If only she hadn’t… If only they wouldn’t. I couldn’t see I was suffering from “mirroritis”. Just a worn out, tired face in the mirror. A sad reflection defined by the pain of my past. I desperately needed a reframe. 

Fortunately, God allows our mirrors to shatter so we can see Him. It’s not pretty when it happens. To be totally honest, it’s downright awful to see your life fragmented. But the freedom that comes from finding your true self is worth the pain, heartache and suffering to get there. 

When I discovered the Lord was the only one with the cure, I turned away from the mirror and ran to the window of His grace. At the window I saw my reflection defined not by what was behind me, but by what lie in front of me. 

I believe I can help you find your true self—the woman God created you to be. The deeper I’ve studied, the more I have come to realize there are timeless truths that transcend the generations. These truths have been lost in the busy, consumer-driven world in which we live and raise families today. 

Whether you’re single, a grandmother, mother, daughter, or sister, I join the apostle Paul in praying “that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which He has called you, the riches of His glorious inheritance in His holy people.” 

Through the window you will discover God’s purpose for you in His grand plan.

“At the window, we see beyond ourselves and our circumstances to become all God created us to be.”

- JILL GARNER

Speaking Topics

  • JILL’S SIGNATURE PRESENTATION
    WOMENS’ RETREAT

    Grounded in scripture, sprinkled with music and interactive activities, in “The Mirror or the Window” women discover the fallacies of the world’s offerings. Women find true rest at the window where they see into the heart of God who loves them unconditionally.

    This message brings hope to your hopelessness and gives you a new perspective on life by:

    • Identifying the areas in your life that are keeping you stuck in the mirror.

    • Shattering your self-centeredness and developing “others-centeredness.”

    • Establishing new routines and patterns that bring joy to day-to-day living.

    • Finding God’s truth about loving yourself.

    * Adaptable as a keynote or luncheon presentation

  • WOMENS’ RETREAT

    Oh, the joy of obedience! Jill shares how obedience is truly greater than sacrifice because obedience unlocks our hearts to receive God’s blessings. Learn how to “run in the path of His commands, so He can set our hearts free.” When we give up not just our desires, but ourselves, we find freedom to become who God created us to be. With brutally honest personal illustrations, Jill will help you work through the three stages of abandonment in this three-part women’s event:

    • “No, Lord, not me” Bondage to self. (Job’s wife, Lot’s wife)

    • “Well, maybe, Lord” Praise and thanksgiving. (Hannah)

    • “Yes, Sir! Yes, Sir!” Freedom to become all He created you to be. (Mary)

  • JILL’S TESTIMONY FOR WOMEN

    As an interior designer by trade, Jill was trained in how to make things look good. She could turn a house into a showplace with a hot glue gun and a bolt of fabric. Jill was a master at making everything look good from the outside, including things that weren’t good at all. When the façade she built around her began to crumble, she was forced to work on the inside.

    In this most revealing presentation, Jill reminds us that while we’re busy making our homes places of beauty; we cannot neglect to make our hearts beautiful, too. It takes a beautiful heart to make a house a beautiful home.

    Jill will lead ladies to consider the transforming power of:

    • Asking the Lord to show you what you do not want to see.

    • Refusing to be swayed by cultural expectations.

    • Seeking the wisdom of scripture in preparing your home.

    • Accepting it’s what’s on the inside that really counts.

  • KEYNOTE | LUNCHEON | SINGLE EVENT

    Psalm 34 tells us “If your heart is broken, you’ll find God right there…if you’re kicked in the gut, He’ll help you catch your breath.” In this surprisingly humorous talk, Jill will convince you that no matter how badly you’ve messed up, no matter how deeply you’re hurting, no matter how disappointed you are in another, messes are still part of God’s plan for your life. We can’t “out-mess” God because His mercy is deep enough to clean up even our biggest messes, if we’ll let Him:

    • Learn how to allow God to make something beautiful from your messiest mess.

    • Discover how to have peace in the midst of turmoil.

    • Find confidence to stand tall in the face of humiliation and disappointment.

  • KEYNOTE | LUNCHEON | SINGLE EVENT

    Wonder what’s behind Jill’s smile? In this moving presentation, Jill shares the intimate story of how God brought her from despair to deliverance. Just when she thought her life was over, God shined His light into her darkness to reveal His plan for her life. Funny thing was, He was there all along, she just couldn’t see Him. Jill shares what she has learned:

    • The trials of life are preparation for God’s fulfillment of His purpose in your life.

    • Assurance that God always sees you, even when you don’t see Him.

    • Deliverance comes when you give up, not when you give in.

  • CHRISTMAS EVENT

    Jill was part of a two-woman team who brought the return of the live nativity to their church many years ago. What began as a curbside presentation grew into a treasured event that hundreds now attend. Hear the touching story of how generations were reunited, unsuspecting passersby found the true meaning of the season and children received the Gospel message. Have your faith renewed and your hope restored as this fresh perspective of Christmas helps you:

    • Create new traditions for your Christmas celebration.

    • Learn how to keep Jesus on the top of your family’s Christmas list.

    • Experience the Gospel through the eyes of a child.

Timeless Messages

Jill delivers a timeless message with winsome charm to multi-generational audiences that draws women out of their comfort zone and into the light of truth. Whether speaking to 25 or 5,000, this dynamic lady will captivate your attendees with deep biblical wisdom and hopeful encouragement, delivered through masterful storytelling.

Testimonials

  • "Every believer yearns for intimacy with God yet is challenged to attain it. Jill speaks out of a heart of intimacy with God. Through her openness and vulnerability, she pulls back the curtain on a deep devotional life that reveals the Father’s presence and lavish love for those who walk the way of the cross."

    Baton Rouge, LA

  • “What a great story and a great message. Jill has a unique way of driving home deep theological truths. She’s not afraid to go over the edge to get our attention. Loved it!”

    Vicksburg, MS

  • “Jill spoke at our annual women’s banquet last fall and she did an amazing job! Her warmth, charm, and transparency really connected with the audience. And the content of her message was right on target for everyone in attendance. She is an inspirational communicator with powerful truths to share. We were greatly blessed by her message!”

    Murfreesboro, TN

Resources for Women

Pick of the Month

Jill's recommendations for women from her personal collection.

Content for your Heart

Words of Wisdom for your life's journey.